Personalised Wedding Ceremony Celebrant Michele Collins. Wedding Club Ceremony DIY Planning Ideas: Hows this wedding ceremony ritual idea. It's a DIY wine box, usually made by the groom and during the ceremony you place your drink of choice, be it wine or spirits into this box along with a love letter from both the bride and the groom. The idea is that if you come to a rocky patch in your relationship you open the box, take a drink and remind yourself why you love each other. If all goes well then you open it on your anniversaries. #weddingrituals #loveweddings